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The Meditation Manual of the Dharma Fellowship

Part I: Preparing the Ground for Meditation

A Brief Introduction

Five hundred and thirty-three years prior to the birth of Christ, the great Indian sage named Siddhartha Gautama Sakyamuni, today known worldwide as "the Buddha," set forth a sublime doctrine consisting of a threefold spiritual training: namely, virtuous behaviour (sila), meditation practice (samadhi), and the acquisition of inner wisdom (prajna). In its twenty-five century history, Buddhism gradually spread throughout the world, bearing the light of love and compassion, always demonstrating itself to be a humanistic faith, never propagated by forced conversion or the sword, the antithesis of fundamental dogmatism and fanaticism.

Rational as it is intended to be, Buddhism is however much more than an intellectual philosophy. Buddhism is a spiritual system that posits a means of salvation (i.e., personal Enlightenment) with the ultimate aim of making the world a better place for all sentient beings. To study Buddha-dharma is therefore to embark upon a practical course of self-discovery and a rigorous, intensely private exercise in spiritual Awakening.

MilarepaOver the centuries, hundreds of thousands of men and women, a vast host of spiritual seekers of Truth, sages and saints, have studied, meditated and practiced the Buddha's path.

Going for Refuge and Practicing Virtuous Conduct

In Buddhist tradition, when someone begins to take instruction in meditation, our custom is that they formally "Go for Refuge" and accept what is called the "Five Precepts." The meaning of this act becomes more profound as one proceeds along the Spiritual Path. Simply put, to take Refuge is to turn decisively away from seeking fulfillment in temporal worldly goals and instead aim for spiritual awakening. Going for Refuge initiates a process of turning toward peace, wisdom, goodness and enlightenment, founded on a heartfelt desire to profoundly connect with the transcendental Reality that is the true source of our being.

It is said that one takes refuge in the Three Jewels. These are the Buddha, the Dharma, the Sangha, and this trinity forms the threefold refuge of all Buddhists.

In the relative or worldly sense:

  • Buddha: The sage Sakyamuni, who proclaimed to the world the Path to Enlightenment, is known as our primary or original teacher and guide. He is called "Buddha" because he attained full Enlightenment, or in other words, "Buddhahood."
  • Dharma: The body of teaching taught by the Buddha, explaining the Path to Enlightenment, is known as the doctrine, the practice or religion of Buddhism.
  • Sangha: The spiritual community of all those who study and try to put into practice the Dharma, with the hope of attaining Buddhahood.

In the absolute or transcendental sense:

  • The term Buddha refers to the One Reality, the ultimate Truth, primordial Awareness, the supreme source, fully awake intelligence, Enlightened-mind, without beginning, self-existent, beyond time and space. Awakening to the presence of this reality within oneself is true Enlightenment.
  • The term Dharma refers to the divine Order of the universe. It is through the divine or cosmic Order that everything exists and functions. Matter is created, the stars revolve on their courses, living beings breath and move, actions (karma) occur according to the law of cause and effect, all due to this divine Order. Living in harmony with that Order is true wisdom.
  • The term Sangha refers to the common living community or oneness of all sentient beings. Whatever living beings there are, weak or strong, of great intelligence or little, from the very small to the very large, visible or invisible, dwelling anywhere throughout the universe, without exception they all have consciousness and life in common. Sharing in that oneness-with-all is true compassion.

To take refuge in these three jewels means to affirm them in one's own life as the guides that can assist one on the Spiritual Path.

When we formally "Go for Refuge," following the method as we learned it from our teacher Namgyal Rimpoche, we do so first in the ancient Pali or Sanskrit language, and then in English. We do this both for historical reasons and also to maintain accuracy of interpretation over the centuries. Both the old Pali and the ancient Sanskrit text of "Going for Refuge" is exactly the same and as it was in the Buddha's time:

Buddham saranam gacchami.
"To the Buddha for refuge do I go."
Dharmam saranam gacchami.
"To the Dharma for refuge do I go."
Sangham saranam gacchami.
"To the Sangha for refuge do I go."

It is through the simple act of reciting this formula three times in front of a recognized member of the Sangha, that one declares oneself an adherent of Buddhism. Like the foundation of a temple, Refuge is the basis upon which all other Buddhist practice is built.

Taking the Five Precepts

After Going for Refuge, the next step is to try to follow, as rules of training, the Five Precepts (panca-sila). These are called "rules of training" because they are presented as guidelines. They are guidelines to support the spiritual training that we wish to undertake. Their observance ensures a noble life and is considered helpful for making progress on the path to Enlightenment. These are voluntary precepts, chosen to be followed by the Buddhist practitioner. Some Buddhists choose not to take on these rules of training. We would encourage you, however, to consider doing so.

  1. Pranatipata viratih saikshapadam samadeyami.
    "I undertake the rule of training not to kill living beings."
    This means to support and appreciate the life of all living beings.

  2. Adattadana viratih saikshapadam samadeyami.
    "I undertake the rule of training to refrain from taking anything that is not given."
    This means to dwell more and more in an attitude of spontaneous generosity.

  3. Kamasu mithyacara viratih saikshapadam samadeyami.
    "I undertake the rule of training not to commit harmful sexual acts."
    This means, when sexually relating to others, to do so in an intimate, loving manner.

  4. Mirsavada viratih saikshapadam samadeyami.
    "I undertake the rule of training not to utter any false speech."
    This means to try always to communicate with others in a truthful and compassionate manner.

  5. Sura maireya madyapana viratih saikshapadam samadeyami.
    "I undertake the rule of training to avoid intoxication, either through abusing alcohol or by taking drugs."
    This means to eat, drink and nurture oneself in a way that supports mental clarity and awakening.

Frequently Asked Questions about Going for Refuge

Is Refuge the same in all traditions and schools of Buddhism?

Yes, all traditions (Burmese, Chinese, Thai, Tibetan, Japanese Zen, etc., etc.) share the same basic Refuge. In the Mahayana tradition, however, the scope of the basic Refuge is widened, and added to by formally taking what is known as the Bodhisattva Vow, which is the pledge to work for the benefit of all beings and the betterment of the world we live in.

Does Going for Refuge bind the person to any special commitments?

Yes, taking Refuge implies a commitment to the Spiritual Path. The main commitment, therefore, is to maintain one's faith and confidence in the Three Jewels. To help one do this, there are two particular sets of rules. The first three rules are prohibitions:

  • Having taken refuge in the Buddha, who represents absolute enlightened Awareness, do not seek refuge in "worldly gods' (including, for example, money, power, powerful people, prestige, drugs, pop stars, etc.) or cult figures, since such idols are incapable of freeing one from attachment and suffering.
  • Having taken refuge in the Dharma, the essence of which love and compassion, one should try to act in accord with righteousness and wisdom. Nor should one harm or speak out against the truth found in other Religions, since these too are all an expression of Dharma.
  • Having taken refuge in the Sangha, which is made up of "spiritual friends", one should always try to treat all sentient beings justly, honestly, and avoid causing harm to them. Do not cling to the company of people of bad behaviour, criminals, sex-abusers, gamblers, drunkards and drug-users, or those who otherwise are detrimental to your spiritual life.

The next three rules contain positive instruction:

  • Having taken refuge in the Buddha, always treat pictures, paintings and statues of the Buddha, also any part of such an image, broken or otherwise, with respect. This applies to other sacred images, symbols and objects, such as Stupas, as well as those of other religions. (A Buddha-image should always be handled respectfully and with due reverence and never be trodden on, or thoughtlessly treated, or picked up by the head.)
  • Having taken refuge in the Dharma, always treat scriptures and sacred texts with respect. (The scriptures should not be strewn around thoughtlessly or as props for other articles. If you need to place a sacred text on the ground, make sure the ground or floor is clean first. Never place something like your coffee cup down on your prayer book. This respect for the scriptures extends to those of other religions and languages too.)
  • Having taken refuge in the Sangha, always show respect for monks and nuns, ordained clergy and teachers, not just for themselves, but for what they represent. (This includes showing respect for the robe and bowl, meditation hall, temples, etc., symbols of the Sangha. When greeting a religious person, it is nice to place the hands together and give a respectful bow. It is considered bad form to shake hands with a monk or nun.)

These are guidelines for showing respect for that which you hold dear, rather than any kind of hard and fast system of rules. Spiritual behaviour should not be conducted superstitiously or fettered by obsessive totem and taboo. The idea is rather to instill an awareness in our self that will help foster our spiritual progress. Nor does holding a rule give one license to judge others. Adversely judging others, or oneself, does not lead to spiritual maturity. As the saying goes, "Judge not, lest ye also be judged."

Does Going for Refuge mean that I have to adopt any particular food or drink restrictions, or wear particular clothing?

No, not at all. Some Buddhists choose to be vegetarian, many are not. The Buddha did not discriminate. Buddhists tend to eat according to the cuisine of the country in which they live. But it is a personal choice. Many Buddhists understand the fifth precept, which prohibits intoxication (madyapana, drunkenness) and the taking of drugs (maireya), to mean refraining from alcohol (sura) altogether. If you wish to do so, that is fine, but many interpret the precept to allow for the consumption of wine and other alcoholic beverages in proper moderation. Buddhists may eat and drink what ever they want, as they see fit. (The rule is stricter for ordained monks and nuns, who do not drink alcohol at all). The same is true for clothing, which is entirely a matter of personal preference.

Does Going for Refuge commit one to a specific Lama, fellowship or school of Buddhism?

No. Going for Refuge is one thing and choosing one's personal spiritual guide and tradition of Buddhist practice is quite another. The connection between oneself and the ordained preceptor who gives Refuge is considered sacred and something to be grateful for, but this connection does not commit one to accept that individual as one's personal Lama (guru) or Spiritual Leader. Nor does Going for Refuge in one Buddhist tradition oblige one to continue in that tradition. You may, as you mature and learn more about the different schools of Buddhism, later decide to switch to another tradition, or even move between them. The diversity of Buddhism in its many different schools and sects are like the wondrous prismatic rays of a single universal pure light, seen as it were through the many facets of the beautiful diamond of Dharma. We should learn to appreciate the whole display.

Does Going for Refuge mean that I must renounce my own religious traditions?

No. Buddhism is all-inclusive. To follow the Dharma does not preclude involvement in other spiritual traditions. Although it may not always work in practice, depending on the person in question or external pressure from the society in which the person lives, theoretically a Hindu, Moslem, Jew or Christian is quite free to follow the Buddhist Path, without any need to renounce their native faith or customs.

Prayers for Meditation

Going to work each day, rushing through traffic, entertaining friends on weekends, never slowing down in either action or conversation, and facing the hectic problems of earning a living and paying the bills, is in many ways the extreme opposite of a contemplative life.

The difficulty is that in the West we really cannot avoid dealing with the stress of worldly activity. Although sitting in meditation may make us feel slightly better and our tension may subside for a little while, that does not really solve the problem. Very rapidly the demands of a busy life nullify all the benefits of quiet sitting. So we have to fashion a spiritual life that both fits into our worldly routine and encourages our inner unfoldment. We need to accompany our practice of meditation with a spiritual routine. We do this by reciting our Prayers of Meditation. Prayers for Meditation fall into two parts: the Preparation Prayers said prior to meditation and the Post-meditation Prayers said afterwards. Through chanting these prayers, we create the right attitude of mind. We set the scene, as it were, and we generate a wholesome, positive mental attitude necessary for good meditation practice. These prayers are powerful affirmations that support our spiritual life.

At the very least we should begin meditation by reciting "Going for Refuge' and "Generating an Enlightened-mind' motivated by a desire to become Enlightened so as to be able to better the lives of all beings in the world. Likewise, we should conclude meditation practice with what is called Dedicating the Good for the benefit of others. It should be really understood that we who follow the sacred lineage of the Ka'gyu are pledged to the service of humanity. We therefore constantly pray that all benefits gained from spiritual practice, from acts of doing good, or from meditation, be not for selfish aims, but be dedicated towards the welfare and betterment of others.

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